Tim Lambesis’ Spouse Dany Responds to Newest Video With Assertion

With yet one more video arriving on-line exhibiting As I Lay Dying singer Tim Lambesis in a lower than flattering mild, the singer’s spouse Dany has taken to social media to answer claims that she is behind the leaked clips.

The primary movies to reach got here near Thanksgiving with two clips of Lambesis exhibiting disturbing habits throughout intense verbal exchanges and shouting matches with Dany.

On the time, Lambesis claimed that the movies had been leaked in retaliation towards him after he had served Dany with divorce papers earlier within the week. He had additionally claimed that he had a restraining order towards Dany who he alleged had subjected him to verbal and bodily abuse.

Now a 3rd video has began making the rounds wherein Lambesis may be seen bodily placing a canine on a number of events.

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With the movies circulating, Dany determined to share her story on social media wherein she denies being the particular person behind the leaked movies and asks the one who is to cease doing so.

Beforehand (earlier than the leak of that first video close to Thanksgiving), she had issued an announcement calling rumors of abuse allegations towards Lambesis “utterly false.”

On this new assertion, Dany alleges that her authentic October assertion was drafted by “managers” working to guard Lambesis’ public picture.

Right now (Jan. 17, 2025), she’s determined to talk out after Lambesis’ latest statements and a public interview, one she views as being makes an attempt to cowl up the reality of their relationship.

Dany additionally accuses Lambesis of utilizing “DARVO techniques.” DARVO is an acronym for “deny, assault, reverse sufferer and offender.” In response to Medical Information Right now, it’s “a method an individual could use to shift accountability for an abusive incident onto the survivor of the abuse” and “it might additionally assist the one who perpetrated the abuse deflect a few of the accountability and blame onto the survivor.”

Her full assertion on the matter may be considered by means of her Instagram publish beneath:

I didn’t launch the movies which have come out of Tim Lambesis. Not those that had been launched in November, nor those that had been launched right this moment. Out of respect for me, I’m asking whoever is leaking movies to please cease.

I’ll now not keep silent out of worry of Tim. The lies being advised by him in his final assertion and on this latest podcast are deliberate makes an attempt to cowl up the reality and play the sufferer, utilizing typical DARVO techniques.

There was NEVER a home violence investigation towards me, nor was there ever a restraining order positioned towards me. That is public info anybody can entry on-line.
The movies that Tim claims to have of me
“abusing” him; are situations of self-defense and outbursts towards his ongoing bodily and psychological abuse, and repeated infidelity with lots of of individuals.
The assertion I launched on October twenty fourth defending his abuse, was drafted up by him and his new “managers” to guard his profession and public picture. Which I’ve proof of.

Tim has constantly tried to intimidate me, bribe me, and beg me to signal an NDA in our marriage settlement stating that I’ll by no means publicly discuss him, in order that the reality might be buried when our divorce is finalized, that are all recorded conversations. I even have a recorded cellphone name from Tim per week in the past, rationalizing, and explaining why he thinks we should always get again collectively.

I refuse to let dishonesty overshadow the ache and trauma I’ve endured any longer. Not simply to me, however to others near this as properly. This isn’t nearly me anymore.
There’s Tim’s model of why his ex band mates left AILD, after which there’s the reality. There isn’t a “irony” behind the timing of the dissolution of AILD, and our marriage.

In the direction of the tip of our relationship, Tim advised me, “In psychology, when somebody hears a narrative of abuse in a relationship from one particular person, they’re extra prone to imagine that particular person’s model as a result of they had been the primary to inform the story.” On the time, I didn’t absolutely perceive what he meant, however it is rather clear to me now.

The abusive, dishonest, narcissist will attempt to destroy your life & your identify with lies earlier than you’ll be able to shine mild on the reality.

I’m finished being SILENT

The preliminary video leaks got here shortly in spite of everything 4 of Lambesis As I Lay Dying bandmates and one in every of his Austrian Loss of life Machine bandmates stepped away from the teams.

As I Lay Dying guitarist Phil Sgrosso famous in his exit assertion that he had been a witness to “regarding patterns of habits” and that the band “now not provides a wholesome or protected surroundings for anybody concerned.”

Others who departed shared related considerations of their respective statements, being attentive to ethical boundaries and preserving their very own integrity.

Lambesis, who served jail time within the 2010s after being convicted for trying to rent a hitman to name his first spouse, is the only remaining member of As I Lay Dying.